There has been a lot written over the
past few years about over-consumption, affluenza, the purchasing of
too much stuff and the need for many to always want more. Consumption
is something we all do naturally, it's part of being human. We need a
constant flow of oxygen, protection from the elements, and sustenance
to re-charge and energize our bodies. These are basic needs which the
planet can comfortably provide even with an increasing population.
Most of us have these basic needs met
unless we are amongst the growing homeless and hungry that find
themselves without protection from the elements or access to enough
food to sustain them. If we look outside this group and focus on
Western civilizations emphasis on constant consumption we can shine a
light on the uncomfortable feeling that results from always wanting
more, or feeling that you haven't worked hard enough, or that someone
else is better off than you are.
A PBS special on Affluenza defines the
term as: “1. The bloated, sluggish and unfulfilled feeling that
results from efforts to keep up with the Joneses. 2. An epidemic of
stress, overwork, waste and indebtedness caused by dogged pursuit of
the American Dream. 3. An unsustainable addiction to economic
growth.”
So the question is why do we spend a
lot of time stressed, indebted, and working way too hard to spend
time storing and cleaning up the “stuff” we think we can't do
without? Well our western society is based upon constant consumption
and the need to acquire status. Unfortunately the search for
prestige and self-esteem has been wrapped up in the outward
expression of material possessions.
But we don't have to buy into it.
There are things to consider before
working your butt off to buy something.
Do I really need it.
How many hours do I have to work
for this?
Will I wear it, eat it, and or use
it until it is worn out, or will I store it and clean it.
If we are really honest with ourselves
when looking around at all our possessions it is easy to see that
most “stuff” spends a lot of time getting stored and cleaned.
Those bigger houses are just storage containers for all the “stuff”
we just have to have. And those security systems we pay for to
protect all that “stuff” means we just have to work all the
harder to store it and clean it.
But i'd like to tell you that you don't
have to buy status by showing off what you own. Being a good consumer
will not make you happy, it will just make you work harder, clean
more, and pay more to store all those products.
There are things we can do to make our
lives happier and less stressed. The first of which is don't buy
things you don't need and the second is stop celebrating and desiring
material possessions. Simplify your life.
Isn't quality of life much more
important than your material “stuff”?
Try focusing on your family, your
friends and your community. Spend less time working to get more
“stuff” and more time working to make your life less stressful.
Value relationships and understand that you don't really need what
you think you need to lead a happy life.
See ya next week.