Sunrise this morning |
Before i become fully awake in the
mornings i listen and feel. i try not to use an alarm clock because
the jarring noise bothers me and my husband. When i wake i might be
on my side when coming out of a deep sleep or on my back. i can
actually hear better with both ears exposed and will usually flip to
my back before opening my eyes.
i can tell by the sounds of the morning
and the feeling of light on my body whether i should roll back over
or get out of bed; but its the listening that clinches the decision.
Listening starts my day. i absorb the
sounds of the wind rustling the leaves in the trees, the Pearly-eyed
Thrashers squawking, the Bananaquits chipping back and forth, the
back ground sounds of dogs barking in the distance, and a roosters
cock-a-doddle-do. The sounds of the morning mail plane flying over
head mean i can sleep another hour but the rush of a car on the road
below means people are moving and maybe i've over slept.
White-winged Dove |
Listening is a psychological act
according to Roland Barthes, a linguist, who claims it is different
from hearing which is a biological process. Listening is an art some
of us have mastered and some of us haven't.
Listening, really listening takes
practice. We can consume sound or we can deny and block it out by
ignoring it. At this moment, while you are reading the words printed
here, sounds are wrapping you in their embrace. Listen for a minute.
What do you hear?
The Buddha said that:
The unlistening one grows like a bull.
His muscles swell, but not his brain or
wisdom
East Rust-op-Twist |
Many philosophers and holy men have
talked about the attributes of listening and i must admit when it
comes to personal interactions i am as guilty as the next one of not
really listening. i, like many, listen in order to respond not to
understand in some of my interactions. But what if we did try to
listen and understand even when we are most disinclined to? How would
this change the outcome of our interactions with those we most
disagree with?
Unfortunately in our fast paced world
too many of us don't take the time to actually stop and listen; to
our environment, to our friends, our neighbors, and even strangers
when out and about. We speak our pieces and move on without really
taking the time to slow down and comprehend.
Tide Pool |
Sounds are all around us but most days
we ignore their call. We ignore the environment screaming at us to
pay attention, we ignore those we don't feel an affinity to, we
ignore those sounds from nature and our friends that are alerting us
to joys we are missing out on. Listening gives us the greatest
opportunity to learn and even evoke memories or emotions we might
have forgotten about. That bird you hear but don't really, the wind,
the trees, your friends and foes...right now...take a moment to
listen.
Sunset over Altona Lagoon |
“You can't fake listening. It shows.”
Raquel Welch
See ya next week